Hi!

I’m Nina Cuellar-Barry and I help moms Parent With Heart By Human Design so they can stop struggling with their kids, truly understand them for who they are, and build a loving relationship that will last a lifetime.

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Let’s face it, being a mom is exhausting and hard sometimes.

You want to be the best mom you can be, but sometimes, in the moment…

…when you get an email from your son’s teacher about his ‘inappropriate behavior.’

…when your daughter fights you on the simplest of requests (why is bedtime so hard?)

…or when your child’s temper flares at the smallest thing and suddenly it’s, “I hate you, Mom!”

You want to respond with patience and calm, but it feels impossible. And if you’re being honest, sometimes you yell at or scold them instead. Of course, you feel rotten later. We’ve all been there.

(Sad face)

Isn’t there a better way?

Yes.

Being a mom can be easier.

I’ve taken my 16 years of experience as an Early Childhood Special Educator, my experience parenting 2 children to adulthood, and my training in Human Design to develop a unique program designed to help moms have better relationships with their kids.

There is a better way, and now I coach other moms on how to Parent with Heart by Human Design.

Being a mom can be easier when you have  better insight and better tools.

That better way is to,

Parent with Heart by Human Design

a completely unique program designed to

• understand your child at the deepest level
• solve your child’s behavior problems using brain smart research, and
• build a loving, compassionate, and fun relationship with your child that will last a lifetime

It starts with understanding your child at the deepest level.

We start our work together with a Human Design Assessment for both you and your child, so you can immediately understand how you interact at the deepest levels.

Human Design is a ‘personality’ system by which you can understand people. It’s based on a combination of astrology, the Chinese I’Ching, the Hindu Chakra system, Jewish Kabbalah, and quantum physics. Your Human Design is determined by the time and place of your birth, and it doesn’t change over time.

There are 5 Human Design Types. Each Type has very different energy needs, unique ways of navigating life, and gifts.

When you know what your child’s Type is, and what they will find difficult – or easy – you’ll get get tremendous insight into the most successful ways to work with them to teach, guide and have fun.

When you understand your child’s Human Design Type you’ll be able to better support them in becoming their most authentic selves.

Knowing about your child’s (and your) Human Design Type

• gives you insight into their motivations and what they care about
• helps you teach them how to manage their emotions, and what certain emotions mean for their Type
• helps you understand when your energy needs aren’t being met, and what you can do to bring yourself back to your center
• shows you where you and your child are likely to have conflict, and how you can avoid conflict in daily activities

Here’s what that can look like in real life.

One preschooler I knew had frequent explosive tantrums. The smallest incidents would set off a huge emotional storm – with lots of yelling and physical acting out. These episodes were difficult for her mom to deal with. The mom often felt depleted after an episode, as she tried to manage and distract her daughter.

But nothing this mom did seemed to decrease these tantrums, no matter how hard she tried to either prevent them or decrease their intensity. This mom was unsure what to do. She was afraid her daughter would struggle even more as she got older.

Human Design was able to give her better insight into the daughter’s behavior.

This little girl was a Generator with a huge need for physical movement. The daughter, as a Generator, also had the ability to draw on her energy for long periods of time.

Mom was a Projector, so her need for physical movement was less, and she needed regular periods to rest and recharge. Her daughter could easily outlast her with her energy level!

And, this child had Emotional Authority, so everything she experienced was through an emotional lens. When she enjoyed something she was happy, and everyone knew it!

Conversely, when she was angry about something, she expressed it with her voice, body, and her entire spirit.

Understanding that, this Projector mom now understood that she could allow her daughter to express her emotions. Mom didn’t have to try to change them. This mom could simply let the daughter’s emotions pass through her and wait for them to die down (as emotions always do).

Later they could talk about the emotions and they could practice how the daughter could manage her body when she felt big emotions.

Over time this little girl is learning how to express what she is feeling and choosing how to manage herself through those feelings.

Children are often taught not to express emotions that are ‘negative’ because they make other people uncomfortable. But the emotions are still there!

This little Emotional Generator was going to feel a lot of emotions in her lifetime. She needed guidance from her mom to learn to recognize them and manage them!

Human Design gave this mom insight and understanding into her daughter’s needs. That understanding  allowed the mom to have compassion for a behavior that she had previously only wanted to stop.

Mom could use this compassion to call on her own wise Projector guidance. Mom could then hold the calm the daughter needed to learn different behaviors.

Human Design offers a unique system for understanding and teaching your child.

Understanding your child’s Human Design allows you to appreciate them for exactly who they are at the deepest level…

…and also gives you insight into what they need to  learn in order to grow into the most wonderful people they can be.

Understanding your own Human Design allows you to have compassion for yourself – you don’t have to be perfect to be a great mom- and to appreciate and use your own gifts.

Human Design is the missing element in understanding children, and deepening your relationship.

With Human Design you can finally understand your child and guide them in becoming the person they were meant to be. Teaching about Human Design and helping moms put it into practice in their families with their children is a large part of my coaching method.

I’m one of the few Human Design Specialists who work exclusively with moms and their children, and the interaction between their Human Designs.

Next, we’re going to solve your child’s behavior problems so you can have peace in your home sooner rather than later

Where are your struggle points with your child right now?

What’s hard?

What could be better?

We’ll look at those difficult times, and put some strategies into place quickly, using techniques backed by brain research.

The strategies we’ll draw from include:

• Understanding how the energy needs of your child’s Human Design Type and your own Human Design Type affect how you interact with each other
• How to use brain smart discipline techniques to help your child learn skills and manage their own behavior
• Practicing self-care routines and habits to support you as you make positive changes for your child and your family
• When to use nervous system calming strategies to support you both through changes in your actions and interactions
• Developing habits and routines for the family to support positive changes

Once you have some breathing space, we’ll uncover your vision for your child and for your relationship.

What do you long for?

In your most cherished dreams, what would it look like to have a loving, happy, fun relationship with your child? How would it feel?

What do you most wish for, for your child and for yourself?

Holding that vision gently, you’re ready for the next step…

You’ll put your vision into form and develop plans for creating that vision one step at a time. This map of your journey will support you all along the way,

when change is easy…

…and when it’s more challenging.

Your unique plan for your child and your family will include the habits, rituals, and routines that work best with your child’s Human Design Type.

Even if your Human Design is very different from your child’s you’ll be able to adapt your plan to your own energy needs, so that both of you are supported.

You’ll make changes to your environment that will promote and maintain the skills your child is learning. Sometimes that means putting in place different routines and expectations. Other times that means advocating for your child’s needs – and your own.

Your actions will be informed by your knowledge and understanding of Human Design as well as the brain smart discipline techniques that will teach your child how to self-manage.

With your greater knowledge and skills, as well as your own self-care, you’ll move from reacting to your child’s behavior without a clear plan…

…to understanding why it’s happening and giving yourself grace in the moment as you compassionately respond in the way you would like to.

Even when…

… your child is screaming and having a meltdown

…your child talks back to you

…you get that email from the teacher

Imagine how THAT would feel.

Being a mom can be easier.

Our work together starts with a Human Design Insight & Guidance Session, where

• you’ll learn your and your child’s motivations, energy needs and how to support your authentic selves
• I’ll assess your current situation to help you choose how to use your new information and insight to guide your child true to their Human Design
• I’ll give you my best recommendations for your next steps, whether that’s us working together further, or how you might proceed on your own.

After our session, you will receive…

1. A recording of the session (105 min).

2. A printable Human Design Chart for each person.

3. PDF’s for your child’s Human Design Type with information on their characteristics and how to best work with theier energy to avoid conflict.

4. My best recommendations for challenging situations identified during the session, emailed within 48 hours.

5. Email support for any questions you may have about the session.

$ 250 USD

Ready to have a better relationship with your child?

Book a Human Design Insight & Guidance Session here!

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Human Design Insight & Guidance Session

• you’ll learn your and your child’s motivations, energy needs and how to support your authentic selves
• I’ll assess your current situation to help you choose how to use your new information and insight to guide your child true to their Human Design
• I’ll give you my best recommendations for your next steps, whether that’s us working together further, or how you might proceed on your own

After our session, you will receive…

1. A recording of the session (105 min).

2. A printable Human Design Chart for each person.

3. PDF’s for your child’s Human Design Type with information on their characteristics and how to best work with theier energy to avoid conflict.

4. My best recommendations for challenging situations identified during the session, emailed within 48 hours.

5. Email support for any questions you may have about the session.

$ 250 USD

Ready to have a better relationship with your child?

Book a Human Design Insight & Guidance Session here!